Pursuing meaningful Action regardless of outcome
In moments of reflection, this question consistently occupies my thoughts. Is this it? What else can I do? My mind swirls with possibilities, from writing that book to posting that video. Yet, lingering doubts always surface. Who is watching? Does anyone even care about my words, videos, or photos?
These questions, laced with self-doubt, are not the ones that lead to fulfillment; rather, they foster pessimism. Instead, we should ask ourselves: What would I do if I didn't care what happened? If no one was watching? Would I dance like a happy idiot, sing out of tune regardless, create imperfect art, or write a blog post riddled with spelling and grammar errors?
As individuals, we accumulate, whether possessions or experiences. The older generation amassed material wealth, while the newer generation seeks diverse experiences and lifestyles. Everything we desire comes at a cost, and so does everything we choose not to do, impacting our lives in profound ways we don't notice until it's in the past.
The crucial shift lies in re-framing the question from "What else can I do?" to "What can I do that will benefit future me?" Remove the "should" and focus on actions that might enhance our health, wealth, happiness, mental clarity, and relationships.
For many of us, the answer lies in simply trying, doing, and removing that toxic word, success. Because just doing it, regardless, is a win; the journey, not the end result, is where success is achieved. I keep thinking about these quotes: "While the words of the prophet are available, the journey must still be traveled alone; no teacher can carry you there" and "You can go from failure to success, but you can't go from excuses to success." Realize the importance of personal initiative.
This realization can strike our baseline; happiness catches up with us. Regardless of external circumstances, we may never be happier than we are now (excluding moments of depression or hardship). Whether living elsewhere or accumulating wealth, the baseline of happiness and neutral contentment will level out. Highs come down, and lows come back up, meeting in the middle.
The question, "Is this it?" I answer with a resounding 'No.' There is more to do, see, and achieve. Will these goals and ambitions ensure long-term happiness? Perhaps not, but the short-term highs will be wonderful to experience. The answer is No; this is not it. There is so much more to explore, discover, and accomplish.
